Finding out you’re pregnant can be overwhelming enough without feeling like someone else is deciding what happens next. Your parents may be worried about your education, finances, or future. They may believe abortion is the most practical answer, even though you don’t want one.
You can understand their concerns and still feel differently about your pregnancy. You deserve the chance to express your feelings, get accurate information, and explore your options without pressure.
Hands of Hope PRC is here to support you throughout this unplanned pregnancy. We can give you access to self-administered, medical-grade pregnancy tests, limited ultrasounds, and information about your options, including the support and resources available to help you if you want to continue your pregnancy.
You do not have to face this alone. Make your appointment today.
Give Yourself Space to Understand What You Want
When your parents have strong opinions, separating their fears from your own feelings can be difficult. You might worry about disappointing them or wonder whether you’re making the right decision.
Take some time to consider what you want, what concerns you most, and what questions you still need answered. You don’t have to have every detail figured out to recognize that you don’t want to be pushed into a decision.
Talk to Your Parents if It Feels Safe
You have the right to express how you feel about your pregnancy, even if your parents disagree with you. If you feel comfortable talking with them, you can explain why you don’t want an abortion and ask them to listen to your perspective.
It may also help to understand what is behind their concerns. Are they worried about how you will finish school, where you will live, or how you will afford a baby? Identifying these concerns may help you explore resources without feeling that you have to change your mind to satisfy them.
You might say, “I understand that you’re worried about my future, but I need you to listen to how I feel, too.”
You may not change their minds in one conversation. If emotions run high, it is okay to pause and revisit the discussion later. Remember, this decision is up to you.
If you fear they may hurt you, threaten you, or force you into a decision, prioritize your safety and seek support from someone you trust. The National Domestic Violence Hotline also offers 24/7 resources, including help figuring out your next steps and creating a safety plan.
Find Someone Who Can Support You
A trusted relative, school counselor, mentor, or our team at Hands of Hope can give you space to talk honestly without adding more pressure. Look for someone who will listen to your worries and help you explore available help.
Financial assistance, housing, educational support, and parenting programs may help address some of the challenges your parents are worried about. At our center, we offer free parenting education through a video-based curriculum. You can also receive referrals to local community resources when you need support beyond our services.
You do not have to figure out every detail alone before considering your next steps.
Get Clear Information About Your Pregnancy
A positive pregnancy test cannot tell you everything about your pregnancy. An ultrasound can help estimate how far along you are, assess signs of development, and determine whether the pregnancy is inside the uterus.
At Hands of Hope PRC, you can receive free pregnancy services, including a limited ultrasound. After confirming your pregnancy, we can discuss your options in greater detail, which include parenting, adoption, and abortion. We will never judge or pressure you into making a pregnancy decision.
Schedule your confidential appointment today and get the support you deserve.
Hands of Hope PRC does not provide or refer for abortions.